Recently I got a dubious invite on this very site regarding the possibility and potential for engaging in a relationship, this message came via my 'gossip pad'. Then yesterday morning I got the same message sent to my email address by the same person! This morning on another music site I run yet another invite for frolics appeared on my message board claiming that I might be fun or cute….and asking me to forward details so a dialogue could be initiated with endorsement from photographs!

Give me a break why don't you? If people would bother to read users profiles, namely mine, then they would see that I am already in a relationship and quite happy with it. I wouldn't mind but the very same messages were sent out on this site a couple of days ago across a wide spectrum of users only to be deleted the next day. I know some people are very lonely in their lives and looking for companionship etc..and if in my case that was true and I was looking for any such relationship then why would I start a blog to find it? I would surely go to a dating site wouldn't I?

It's all insincere bullshit! I've seen it before…..people flood the net with the same invitation, prospecting to see what is out there, and some have got malicious motives too! Do you think I was born yesterday? Well I can assure you I was not. I have been blogging now for many years and have seen quite a lot of nasty people or people just out for a laugh, or people who just want to abuse others with disgusting comments.

If people reading my blog got the impression I was fair game for such activities then they are not a very good judge of character at all! I write to spread knowledge and to interact with people of similar intellect in order to engage in intersting discussions, I don't do it with a view of meeting someone so I can drop my cacks!

I hope this answers any further or future invitations from said people….read my f***ing profile why don't you.